In my years of practice in the field of marriage counselling and relationship counselling, I have observed that all the couples need happy relationships. This is because we all are social beings. We all need warmth and affection to survive. For creating happy relationships, it is important for us to be happy ourselves. At the same it is important that people around us are also happy. Relationships can only support the happiness that exists in us and in others who are related to us. Relationships cannot be the source of happiness. We need to first bring happiness in the relationship and then maintain it. Happy people make happy relationships. Sad people only bring sadness to the relationship. When two sad people multiply their sadness, the result is MISERY. But when two happy people multiply their happiness, the result is called BLISS. They become a support system for each other in true sense.

A successful marriage is where :
1. The couple feel free to express their emotions to each other
2. The couple is able to accept their own selves and also each other
3. The couple can give and take feedback from each other in a healthy manner for a constructive cause
4. The couple can tell each other what they hope, fear, expect
5. The couple can agree to disagree
6. The couple can make choices
7. The couple can liberate themselves from the disturbing events of the past

Step 1 : Find the sources of happiness for yourself and others.
Step 2 : Perceive the happiness already existing in yourself, others and the relationship.
Step 3 : Share this happiness with others related to you.
Step 4 : Multiply the happiness in the relationship using the relationship maps.
Step 5 : Celebrate the growth of happiness in the relationship and create history of happy Moments in the relationship.